Ladies before you marry any sweet mouth from the USA , first google his name , if no drama that you cannot deal with then ask for his county of residence and go online to check marital records . If no search shows he is married pay $29 to a service for a National USA search . Do this to avoid stories that touches the heart later .
A female friend of mine met this guy that looks simple and nice on a dating site . After all the lovey dovey online and the guy even visited her to collect his poi and they travelled to a few third world countries together. They finally got married high society both traditionally and legally in Nigeria and that is where the drama started .
The guy brought some forms and gave her to sign. One of them is I-485 (Application to register permanent residence form). Which according to him will be filed concurrently with his own I-30 petition for a relative . Two years passed and the babe was still In Nigeria and I asked her what was going on . She said her husband was waiting for a response from US Immigration . I filed a similar petition before and US Immigration does not take two years to respond to a petition filed by a U.S. citizen spouse maximum six months they will write you a letter though you should get an acknowledgment letter for your payment and your alien number within a momth . The husband continued his visits and they atill travel together even to Caribbean countries.
The third year she decided to try a U.S. visitor visa . I even advised her not to waste her money as she will be denied once they find out she has a pending immigrant visa application and will be told to wait for the outcome. Lo and behold her visitor visa was granted she already has an Impressive travel history. One would have thought her husband would have been happy to have his wife with him while she awaits the outcome of her immigrant visa application but the opposite happened as he was furious and later calmed down and ask her to wait for him to buy her ticket .
The babe waited six months no ticket and less visitation from him so she decided to buy her own ticket and travelled to meet him with no notice to him. On arrival at his house he was at work but a white lady opened the door and asked who she was, surprised at seeing the lady she lied that she is the sister and her ‘brother’ was supposed to pick her up at the airport and he didn’t show up .
The white lady obviously her husband’s real wife called the husband that his sister was in the house and he rushed back home . My friend was so traumatized and did not know what do or say and the white lady took her luggage to their guest room . After resting and freshened up the Nigerian husband asked her to continue to pretend to be his sister. My friend eventually called me three days later to let me know what was going on. I asked what her decision is considering she had time to think. That was when she indicated she would like to leave that house as she cannot keep quiet watching her so called husband with his wife and children and she will be pretending to be his sister .
She eventually moved to my place in Atlanta to catch some air and I did my best for her to enjoy her stay for the one month she was my guest before she returned to Nigeria . Apparently her so called husband deceived her and filed no immigration papers. She Is even lucky she had no child for him.
